What is important to you

Have you ever sat done and wondered what was really important to you? People, places or things, are these ringing a bell? Can you live without a certain item over a person? Or can you live without going to a certain place over your sanity?

Many times we make choices that may not make sense at the time we do them or are even down right stupid. Yet you do them and are suppose to learn from them.

But what happens when you don't learn the lesson that you are suppose to?

When it comes to people, do you value them more than what you have to offer yourself?

People always say they can motivate you and want you to follow what they believe. Well what will you believe? Do you believe in yourself enough to know when you are not being treated right? Do you have to follow someone else word in order to get a clue?
Granted I have been there and done that, so I am not sitting on my high horse and judging anyone.

Just sharing my thoughts with you and getting feedback.

I have been wrong before.

But let me ask you this, how many times have you looked to someone else for help before you look within yourself? How much money has been shelled out to those that say they can help you with your inner peace? Or showing you the way to follow something that wasn't really important at all?

People, place or thing....
Have you ever moved somewhere to get away from something or someone? Thinking that you will escape whatever it is that is bothering you are disturbing your peace? I have, hell I have done it couple of times. Did it help, maybe. But it was important to me to find me again.

But I'm just talking.

What was important to me was to follow what I believed in. I believed in me more than anyone else did and that was why I ask this question to you all...

What is important to you?

Person, place or things?

Lastly I have been ask over and over again why am I single?
Well that is a loaded question. Kinda like the question why do people cheat? Why is the sky blue? I don't know. You would have to ask my ex's why they are not with me. I can tell you why I am not with them. Because they weren't ready.
Maybe they weren't ready for me and who I am really. I am not perfect, but I am no ones fool either.
They say a man will only do what a woman allows them to do, yet if I allow you not to hurt me and treat me like hell, then guess what, I am alone for that reason.
But that also goes with anyone. Friends, family members and so on.
So what is important to me?

Me.